Are you planning your wedding and thinking about doing the flowers yourself? Great idea! DIY wedding flowers can save you money and add a personal touch to your big day. But where do you start? Let’s learn the basic rules of floral arrangement together! This guide will help you understand the principles of floral design, so you can create beautiful, balanced, and professional-looking arrangements.

Balance is about making your arrangement look even and stable. It ensures that your flower arrangement does not topple over and looks pleasing to the eye. There are two types of balance in floral arrangements: symmetrical and asymmetrical.

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Symmetrical balance means both sides of your arrangement are the same. Imagine a line down the middle. Each side is very similar the other, though no arrangement will ever be perfectly symmetrical. This type of balance gives a formal and neat look. It’s perfect for traditional weddings or formal events. When creating a symmetrical arrangement, you should carefully place your flowers and greenery to ensure each side mirrors the other. This balance creates a sense of order and precision, making your arrangement appear well-thought-out and professional.

For example, if you place a large rose on the left side of the arrangement, you should place a similar rose on the right side at a slightly higher or lower height and distance from the other rose on the other side. This creates a balanced and harmonious look that is visually appealing, without making it oddly matchy matchy.

Limiting the number of flowers you choose also helps with making your arrangement neat, tidy, and symmetrical.

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Asymmetrical balance means both sides are different but still balanced. The visual weight is even, but the sides are not identical. This type of balance looks more natural and relaxed. It’s great for rustic or casual weddings. Don’t worry if it’s not exact. Just make sure it feels balanced to your eye. This style has grown increasingly popular over the past several years and creates a gorgeous, organic look.

To achieve asymmetrical balance, you can use different types of flowers and greenery for your arrangement. You’ll also create the basic shape in an asymmetrical shape, such as an S shape or a U shape.. The key is to ensure that the overall visual weight is evenly distributed. For instance, you can place a large focal flower on one side and balance it with several smaller flowers or foliage on the other side. This creates a dynamic and interesting arrangement that feels organic and spontaneous.

Proportion and scale are about size. Make sure the size of the flowers matches the container. For instance, you wouldn't put a King Protea stem in a bud vase. A good rule is to make the height of the arrangement one and a half times the height of the container. If your vase is 10 inches tall, your arrangement should be about 15 inches tall. This makes sure your flowers don’t look too big or too small for the vase.

Proportion and scale ensure that all elements of your arrangement are in harmony with each other. The flowers, greenery, and container should complement each other in terms of size and height. This creates a cohesive and balanced look that is pleasing to the eye.

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Choosing the right container is crucial for achieving the correct proportion and scale. A small container with large, tall flowers will look top-heavy and unstable, while a large container with short, small flowers will look sparse and underwhelming. The container should provide a stable base for the flowers and enhance the overall look of the arrangement.

When selecting a container, consider the size and shape of the flowers you plan to use. Tall, slender flowers look best in tall, narrow vases, while short, bushy flowers look best in low, wide containers. The container should also match the style of your wedding or event. A rustic wedding might call for a vintage mason jar, while an elegant wedding might call for a sleek, modern vase.

Every arrangement needs a focal point. This is the part that grabs attention. It’s often the largest, most colorful, or unique flower in the arrangement. The focal point draws the viewer’s eye and adds interest. Place it in the front or and slightly off-center. This makes your arrangement pop and keeps it exciting.

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Harmony and unity mean all parts of the arrangement work well together. The flowers, leaves, and container should match in color, texture, and style. They should look like they belong together. This creates a cohesive and pleasing look. For example, if you’re using rustic flowers, choose a rustic container. If your flowers are elegant, go for an elegant vase

To achieve harmony and unity, consider the overall theme and style of your arrangement. Choose flowers and greenery that complement each other in terms of color, shape, and texture. The container should also match the style of the arrangement and the overall theme of the wedding or event.

For example, if you are creating a romantic, vintage-inspired arrangement, choose flowers in soft, pastel colors, and pair them with delicate greenery and a vintage-style container. If you are creating a modern, minimalist arrangement, choose flowers with clean lines and bold colors, and pair them with sleek, modern greenery and a contemporary container.

Harmony and unity can also be achieved by repeating certain elements throughout the arrangement. For example, you might use the same type of greenery throughout the arrangement to create a sense of continuity and cohesion.

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Rhythm guides the viewer’s eye through the arrangement. It’s like a path that takes them on a journey. You can create rhythm by varying the heights and angles of the flowers. Place some flowers higher and others lower. Angle some to the left and others to the right. This makes the arrangement look dynamic and interesting.

Color is very important in floral arrangements. Use color to create harmony and interest. There are a few ways to use color:

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Monochromatic Colors: These are different shades of the same color, like light pink and dark pink. They create a soft and elegant look.

Mix and match colors to find what works best for your wedding theme.

To use color effectively, start by choosing a color scheme that matches the overall theme and style of your wedding or event. Consider the colors of the bridesmaids' dresses, the venue, and other decor elements. Choose flowers in colors that complement these elements and create a cohesive look.

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For example, if your wedding theme is rustic and romantic, you might choose a color scheme of soft pinks, creams, and greens. Use these colors throughout your arrangement to create harmony and unity. If your wedding theme is bold and modern, you might choose a color scheme of bright reds, oranges, and yellows. Use these colors to create a vibrant and dynamic arrangement.

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Color can also be used to create contrast and interest. For example, you might use a bold, bright flower as your focal point, and surround it with softer, more neutral colors to create contrast and draw attention to the focal point.

Texture and contrast add depth to your arrangement. Use a mix of smooth and rough, delicate and sturdy elements. This creates visual interest and makes your arrangement more appealing. For example, combine soft roses with spiky eucalyptus. Mix smooth lilies with rough pinecones. The variety of textures keeps the viewer’s eye engaged.

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To add texture and contrast, start by choosing flowers and greenery with different textures. Mix smooth, delicate flowers with rough, sturdy greenery to create contrast and interest. The different textures should complement each other and create a cohesive look.

For example, you might combine soft, delicate roses with spiky, textured eucalyptus to create contrast and interest. The smooth texture of the roses contrasts with the rough texture of the eucalyptus, creating a dynamic and visually appealing arrangement.

Texture can also be added through the use of different types of foliage. Mix delicate, feathery ferns with sturdy, broad leaves to create contrast and depth. The different textures add visual interest and make the arrangement more dynamic.

Now that you know the basic rules, let’s put them together. Start with a balanced design. Choose flowers and a container that are proportionate. Add a focal point to draw attention. Ensure all elements work together in harmony. Create rhythm by varying heights and angles. Use colors thoughtfully. Add different textures for contrast.

Let’s create a simple DIY wedding flower arrangement using these rules. Here’s what you’ll need:

Container: Choose a vase that matches your wedding theme. For centerpieces, we recommend staying at a 5" vase or under.

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Flowers: Pick a mix of flowers. For example, the flowers in our Pastella Premade include King Protea, Pink Ranunculus, and Standard Pink Roses.

Steps:

1. Prepare the Container: Fill your vase with water and flower food.

2. Create the Base: Start with greenery. Distribute it evenly around the vase. This is also where you can start setting your margins (how tall or wide your arrangement will be).

3. Add the Focal Point: Place your focal flower slightly off-center.

4. Fill In: Add your other flowers around the focal point. Vary the heights and angles.

5. Check Balance: Step back and make sure it looks balanced.

6. Adjust: Make any final adjustments to ensure harmony and rhythm.

Tip: When building a bouquet, stand in front of a mirror. This helps so much because you'll get to see a different angle than if you just hold it out at the length of your arm.

Plan Ahead: Decide on your flowers and order them in advance. We will never recommend waiting until the last minute. Place your order 2-3 months in advance. Thinking about a custom design? We are typically booked out weeks in advance. Place that custom design order 3+ months in advance to ensure you have plenty of time to get on our designers’ schedule for your consultation.

Make sure you have all the supplies you need well in advance, including vases, floral tape, and scissors. Nothing kills the vibe more than dealing with a post office delay days before your wedding. Also be sure to open your box of supplies when you receive it to ensure all is well. If you wait to open it and something is damaged, that's added stress that could have been avoided!

Practice: Try making a few arrangements before the big day. This will help you get a feel for the flowers and how they work together. Follow Amy’s tips for choosing grocery store flowers for practice.

Watch Amy's tips here

Want more formal practice or want to make your practice into an event? Host a girls night centerpiece workshop from our sister store, Petal Icon!

See more: Petal Icon's Girls Night Packages

Keep It Simple: Don’t overcomplicate. Simple arrangements can be just as beautiful. Focus on creating a balanced, harmonious design.

Ask for Help: Get friends or family to help you. It’s more fun and less stressful. Plus, they might have some great ideas and suggestions. Grab the cheesy puffs, pizza, a box of wine, or your favorite fizzy water. Put on some fun music or a favorite movie. Trust us - you’ll have so much fun making memories while surrounded by your favorite people and boatloads of gorgeous flowers!

When choosing flowers for your DIY wedding arrangement, consider the season and availability. Seasonal flowers are usually fresher and more affordable. Here are some popular flowers for different seasons:

• Spring: Tulips, peonies, and ranunculus.
• Summer: Roses, sunflowers, lilies, and hydrangeas.
• Fall: Chrysanthemums, football mums, and daisy poms.
• Winter: Port cedar, Agonis, and carnations.

Choose flowers that match your wedding theme and color scheme. If you’re not sure which flowers to choose, ask us for recommendations or book a custom design.

Proper care is essential to keep your flowers fresh and beautiful. Here are some tips for caring for your DIY wedding flowers:

• Keep Them Hydrated: Fill your vases with water and add floral food. Change the water every day to keep it fresh.
• Trim the Stems: Trim the stems at an angle to help the flowers absorb water better. Remove any leaves that will be below the water line to prevent bacteria growth.
• Keep Them Cool: Store your flowers in a cool, dark place until you’re ready to use them. Avoid placing them in direct sunlight or near heat sources.
• Mist the Flowers: Mist the flowers with water to keep them hydrated and fresh.

For the full breakdown of flower prep, visit our Flowers 101 page.

Creating your own wedding flower arrangements can be a fun and rewarding experience. By following these basic rules, you can create beautiful and balanced arrangements that will impress your guests. Remember, balance, proportion, focal point, harmony, rhythm, color, and texture are key. Practice and have fun with it! 

Ready to start creating your own DIY wedding flowers? Shop our mixed boxes, packages, and flowers by the bunch at Flower Moxie today! We have everything you need to make your floral dreams come true.

With our wide range of eco-friendly floral supplies, you can create stunning and sustainable arrangements that will make your special day unforgettable. Questions? Hit us up! We're full-time available and we'd love to help!