If you’ve never pinned a boutonniere before, it can feel a little tricky. But don’t worry! With the right supplies and a few simple steps, you’ll have that boutonniere secure in no time. Whether you're a mom pinning one on your teenager or a teen getting ready for prom, homecoming, or a formal event, this guide will make it easy.

Before you start, gather these supplies:

• Boutonniere (DIY or premade)
• Ribbon (use 5/8" for a polished look)
• Short pixie pins (two work best)

Pixie pins are different from regular straight pins. They are shorter which makes them much easier to work with when pinning a boutonniere. Unlike long straight pins, pixie pins won’t go all the way through the boutonniere stem and stab the person wearing it. This makes them the best option for securing a boutonniere without discomfort.

You can either make your own or buy a premade boutonniere. If you’re short on time, check out Flower Moxie’s selection of premade prom boutonnieres for an easy, stylish option.

Adding ribbon around the stem gives the boutonniere a clean, polished look. Choose a color that complements your outfit for extra style points. A thin 3/8" satin ribbon works best for a refined touch. Secure the ribbon tightly to prevent unraveling throughout the night.

Place the boutonniere on the left lapel, just above the heart. The flower should be on the outside of the jacket, with the stem pointing downward. The boutonniere should sit naturally along the lapel for a seamless look. Make sure it is not too high or too low.

While holding the boutonniere in place, take your first pixie pin. Insert it through the top of the lapel and into the stems in a downward direction. Then, take your second pin and insert it from underneath in an upward direction. This crisscross method keeps the boutonniere secure and prevents it from wobbling. The opposing directions of the pins provide extra stability, so the boutonniere stays in place all night long.

Pixie pins are particularly useful for this step because their short length ensures they won’t stick out too much or poke through the lapel, which can be both uncomfortable and unsightly.

Give it a gentle tug to make sure it’s secure. If needed, adjust the pins or add a third one for extra hold. If the boutonniere moves too much, reposition the pins to create a stronger hold. Just be careful not to use too many pins, as that can make the boutonniere look cluttered or unnatural.

• Don’t pin too low: The boutonniere should sit high on the lapel.
• Don’t use a straight pin: Pixie pins are shorter, making them easier to work with and less likely to poke through the other side.
• Don’t stab yourself:! Be careful when inserting the pins, especially if you're helping someone else.

A boutonniere is a small detail that makes a big impact. It ties the whole look together and gives off a polished, classic vibe. A properly pinned boutonniere stays put through dancing, photos, and all the fun of a prom or formal event. Learning how to pin one properly ensures it stays in place all night, no matter how much movement happens.

Wearing a boutonniere has long been a tradition at formal events like prom and weddings. It adds a sophisticated touch and complements the rest of the attire. A secure and well-pinned boutonniere enhances the look, while a loose or poorly pinned one can become a distraction.

• Practice ahead of time: If it’s your first time pinning a boutonniere, do a quick test run before the event.
• Have extra pins on hand: In case one gets lost or bent, having a backup set of pixie pins is always a good idea.
• Use a mirror: If pinning yourself, use a mirror to check placement and make sure the boutonniere sits straight.
• Ask for help: If you’re struggling, don’t hesitate to ask a parent, friend, or event coordinator for assistance.

Pinning a boutonniere doesn’t have to be stressful. Follow these steps, take your time, and you’ll be a pro in no time. Using pixie pins instead of regular straight pins makes the process much easier and safer. If you want to skip the DIY route, shop Flower Moxie’s premade prom bouquets boutonnieres for an easy and stylish solution!